This isn’t a spoiler, you could probably guess this, but in the movie the seen with Mr. Franz is really heartbreaking: the one where he offers to adopt him. I think that this epitomizes Alexander Supertramp McCandless’ character. The book and film are both filled with his inability to make and form strong relationships… which pushes his itchy feet to run.
For one of my spiritual formation classes I had to take a family background questionnaire… and if you have done any thing like this before you understand a little bit about how your family of origin can affect who you are and in a spiritual way how you view God the Father. I talk about this frequently, but will repeat it here. Even though both of my parents were home when I was growing up I still feel a little aloof in my connection with them. There is a lot behind this feeling (being played against one another, fear of their impending divorce – which never happened, etc.) I discovered in the background questionnaire that one of the things that I am prone to having problems with is trusting others and developing stronger ties with individuals. The background study however reveal that in individuals like myself once we form bonds/trust it is very strong. As I look back on my life I see time and time again the proclivity to shy away from opening up with individuals and trusting parental/authority figures… including God the Father. As my heart opened up to truth I was able to establish trust and love, but it was hard because of how I viewed myself and how I viewed parental type figures.
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